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Thank you for sharing this. It is beautiful. I hope other moms in the same situation ( like me) can experience this grace and growth. I will save this piece of writing to re-read for inspiration.

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Beautifully expressed. Your words speak to me because my daughter (almost 18, in the trans fog for 3.5 years) seems to be at a similar spot. ❤️

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I will save this and refer to it if I ever have the chance to send my daughter a note about hormones and surgery. Your tone was just right!

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You made me cry and laugh! I too will be saving this wonderful writing to refer to as needed. My just turned 20 yrs old trans identifying daughter still hasn't medicalised despite wanting to earlier. There have been recent conversations about makeup and blaming me about my (one time!) voiced attitude that chucking on foundation and not looking after acne just compounds skin problems. Happily accepting blame as to why daughter hasn't experimented much with make up🙄.

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Thank you. Thank you. I needed to read your words at this very minute.

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